I’ve been home for a few hours after a six-hour shopping trip and haven’t unloaded the stuff from the back of the car. It’s just too much for me right now.
Since January, Gina and I have spent approximately sixty hours on the road in search of what we think we need for a wedding celebration.
We are less than three weeks away and it’s an exciting time. It’s also making me flip. My nerves are dying.
Recently I attended a bridal shower at her office. I hadn’t been in a high-rise for a few decades and oh, my. “Gawwwleeeeee. Gina, I SEE MY CAR DOWN THERE!”
And I tell myself, “Go outdoors and just breathe.”
It’s crunch time. Regular folks like us aren't accustomed to throwing the largest party of our lives. We need to work feverishly now and I do believe I hallucinated at the mall today, after hour number five.
“Gina, where did we park the car? It is not funny. Where’s the car?
Oh my God, I can’t… find… the CAR!
A clean pond. Breathe.
Just lovely. Breathe. Relax.
(Mental picture for readers: At the shopping mall my hair had dried in crunchy curls from sweat during a two-hour Zumbathon the night before, all enhanced with blood-shot eyes.)
“Oh Lord. That’s the mens’ room. Oops. (laughed out loud).
Where am I?
Where are WE?”
Ensuing laughter, but honestly, I’m at the end of this, already. I’m so spent, financially and emotionally, yet the best is yet to come. The payoff. Please let it be worth all of this.
Find the first lizard of the year. Breathe.
That girl can shop for days with little food and a few pee breaks. After four hours, I’m brain dead. I hate shopping now and after the wedding, I don’t plan to visit a shopping mall until next Christmas.
“Gina, I need to eat something. To hell with the diet. Let’s stop for a slice of pizza.
Do you know I tripped and almost fell into that display of crystal over there? Stop laughing. It isn't funny...
You go into J Crew. Just go. I’ll lean against the railing here and wait. Don’t make me wait too long, either, dammit.
Don’t you DARE lead me to Abercrombie."
I’d rather die than to inhale toxic fumes. (She doesn't venture into that awful store anymore and for no apparent reason, my nasty streak reared its ugly head.) "I HATE THAT STORE. IT STINKS."
While watching the Bumbles, breathe.
“Please! I can’t look at another shoe! Let’s go. Now.”
We’ve visited two different craft stores at least twenty times. Yes, we (I) made a few little things and I have fallen in love with a little glue gun. I never used a glue gun until last week and let me tell you, when I had that mini hot glue gun in my hand, I had the POWER!
Today, what remained on our list of things to purchase was a Wedding Guest Book. We visited a “party store” where you can find anything you’ll ever want or need to throw a party. It’s a store filled with two trillion tiny items.
Ah ha! Guest books! Pens!
I said, “Oh, what the heck. It’s a guest book with some silver on the vinyl cover. The pen? It might not have ink, but for less than $15.00, it isn't bad.”
Without much thought or another glance, she threw it behind her into the buggy. Good shot.
Let’s check that off the list. Yeah!
A few hours later, we stumbled upon a very beautiful guest book with a very nice pen that we are certain is full of ink. She had it engraved and it belongs to her now.
On the mall parking lot we laughed until we cried at that flimsy guest book from the party store, suitable for one of those funny redneck weddings you see in e-mail forwards. I’m glad we decided to care.
Rest by the pond and breathe.
Wedding gown fittings, Mom’s fitting, menu and cake tastings, hair trials… all lead to a day we will always hold close to our hearts.
Both Mom and Bride are wishing for the end before it’s time.
I'm breathing and laughing with Mockingbirds. My saving grace.